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Erik Scheier's avatar

This is great. I think you (kind of) missed a couple things:

- People also really like to do what they are good at. That typically lines up with our interests but not necessarily. I'm really interested in psychology but I think I'd be a terrible therapist. On the other hand, my (undiagnosed) ADHD perfectly dovetailed with trading. Often the best form of compensation (and motivation) is just telling someone they did a good job.

- Similar to a foxhole, people often do what they are doing for the persons sitting next to them. Any job, no matter how passionate you are about it, has periods where the work feels particularly tedious and/or not worth the effort. Relationships, working on a team, feeling like you have a purpose on the other hand, have a much longer shelf life. Even in industries that are notoriously transactional, like finance and law, there are some firms that are much better at developing culture.

Mayhew B. Well's avatar

I’ve been reading and learning from your posts for several years. I nearly always come away improved, though as often as not, feeling like I still have so much to learn.

This line, “The truth is a dumb 20-year old chooses our lives for us and it takes creativity and courage to make a graceful exit from an expensive choice.” echoes Thoreau’s statement about the “mass of men living lives of quiet desperation.”

“Successful” people often work themselves into higher paying roles that they enjoy less than the roles they started in. The money keeps them there, it becomes the “expensive choice” and can lead to “quiet desperation.”

Possibly speaking from experience.

Thanks for the thoughtful essay.

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